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It's way more helpful than knowing which Disney Princess you are...

I love a good online quiz. Don’t you?  But so many of them are just a waste of my already limited time. I mean, c’mon… “Which Disney princess are you?”  (So not helpful for my daily life.)

However, I just discovered a quiz that actually helped me understand myself better and gave me some concrete tips to capitalize on my strengths and shore up my weaknesses in the area of productivity and focus.

Michael Hyatt has just opened access to his online Personal Productivity Assessment. It’s the best kind of quiz. FREE. QUICK. EASY. And actually helpful for your life.

Now, you’ve likely heard me sing the praises of Michael Hyatt in the past. He is my online mentor and one of the main reasons I have a website and online ministry at all! Here is a pic of Michael and me at the SheSpeaks conference in 2013.

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In addition to being a godly leader with decades of experience in the Christian publishing industry, he is a productivity whiz! And he’s a great teacher!

I have invested in several of his online courses and reaped amazing rewards from each one. Basically, I jump on whatever this man creates because his content always improves my life. And while his content is directed to a general audience, I like that his Christian beliefs provide the framework for everything he teaches.

His latest tool is centered on helping you assess how focused and productive you are.

I know myself well enough to know I struggle in this area. I’ve improved over the last few years, but this is just not my area of strength. So when I saw he had something that would not just tell me what I already know, but actually provide me with some tips and teaching on how to improve, you better believe I was clicking on the link and taking that quiz.

In the quiz, Michael asks you a series of questions about productivity, and you answer according to your own habits and systems. At the end, he gives you a productivity score — AND tells you exactly what you need to do to improve.

I just took it. And I got so much out of it I thought you might like to give it a go. Click here to access it while you can. (It’s only open for a few days, and you won’t want to miss it!)

Blessings of truth and grace,

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Laura Naiser

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P.S. In case you were wondering…

My Disney princess is Belle.
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And my productivity score is 53. I’m operating at the frustration level, but now I at least know what strengths to capitalize on and what areas to shore up. Here’s a screen shot of part of my results summary.


P.P.S. Once you take the assessment, post a comment on my Facebook page, send me a Tweet, or email me and let me know what YOUR biggest takeaway is from the assessment. (And if you want, share your score with me. I am curious!) I’m blocking off some time in my calendar to read every reply and I am super excited to hear back from you!

You CAN Find Hope and Comfort in the Midst of a Calamity

My friend, Jason, lives in the Houston area and recently updated his Facebook status to these words: Isaiah 43:2. Why would he choose those words?

I can’t speak for Jason, but knowing what a strong believer he is, I suspect it is because he knows the context of the words. When we know the setting in which Isaiah’s words apply, we can see why someone dealing with the overwhelming aftermath of the flooding produced by Harvey would chose this particular verse on which to ground his response.

Questions Need Responses

If you are struggling with God right now because you look around and see so much destruction, suffering, and pain, I get it. Without the context of God’s character and his love for his rebellious and fallen creation, it would be only natural to have questions.

I saw an example of this very kind of inquiry on Twitter the other day. And the responses I saw to that question reflected a knowledge of context (and a personal knowledge and relationship with God).

Here’s the question tweet and one of the responses from a believer:

Now, I don’t know for certain God’s reasons for doing or not doing specific things. Why does he allow storms like Harvey to cause death and destruction? I don’t know.

But I do know God’s character as revealed in the Bible and in Jesus. And so, like my friend Jason, I can cling to the words of Isaiah and find comfort and hope. Yes, the storm waters seem to have the upper hand. They have claimed lives and destroyed homes.

Yet, I also see God present with those who are suffering and grieving.

I see him giving us perspective on our pettiness and selfishness.

I see him offering us opportunities to express love and self-sacrifice rather than hate and self-centeredness.

What is the context for Isaiah 43:2?

It is never a good idea to pull a verse out of its context. We run a huge risk of twisting the intended meaning and message. So, to understand why there is such hope and comfort in verse 43:2 of this very large and complex book, I want to share this amazing overview from The Bible Project. In around 16 minutes, you’ll understand the context, see the character of God on display, and be equipped to understand how these words are right at home in a seemingly hopeless scenario.

While the two situations (Israelites in exile due to a man-made disaster and Texans suffering from a natural disaster) are very different, the general context is similar: suffering people who are struggling to understand where God is in the midst of their ruin. What hope do they have when everywhere they look they see destruction and suffering?

That is the situation into which Isaiah’s words were initially addressed.

Watch these two 8-minute videos and you’ll see why Jason and other believers find hope for their situation from this ancient prophet. And why you can, too.

Part 1: Isaiah 1–39

Part 2: Isaiah 40–66

God is Here for You and So Am I

If you’re struggling, hurting, or questioning, I would love to come alongside you and offer you some hope and prayer.

If that sounds like something that would be helpful to you, select a time on my online calendar and we’ll have a short visit via phone or video chat. There is no cost for this call. I’m honored to have the opportunity to minister to you.

Don’t want to visit one-on-one but would still like to share and be prayed for? Feel free to leave a comment or reach out to me via email or social media.

Now, if you just want to argue for the sake of arguing, I’d rather spend my time and energy on more productive causes ministering to those hurting or searching for a closer connection with God or more peace and purpose in their life. So, if you sincerely want to dialogue about legitimate questions and struggles, I’m here for you.

And I’m always happy to pray for and with you. Let me know how I can minister to you. 

You can leave a comment by clicking here.

You Can Be There for Those in Need

Want to reflect God’s loving character to those who are hurting? You can join Making It Real Ministries, Main Street Baptist Church and First Baptist Church of Huffman, Texas in providing practical and needed resources and support to those in the Houston area impacted by Harvey. Just click the button or image below to learn more or to make a donation.

Donate at http://www.lauranaiser.com/harvey

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The Best Way I Know to Compare Multiple Bible Translations Side-by-Side

One of the easiest tools to help you understand a confusing or unclear passage of Scripture is simply an alternate translation. Each translation, working from the original manuscripts of Scripture, uses slightly different criteria for translating the original language into English. The translation is actually the first layer of interpretation. So today, I want to show you how to easily compare translations of a particular passage.

The video below is a quick little screen cast in which I’ll show you how to view chapter four of Philippians in the NIV, ESV, and NASB translations, side-by-side.

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One of the things I demonstrate on this handout is how some commonly used translations differ in their criteria. I find it super helpful when deciding which ones to compare with each other and to help me understand why one group of translators might have made the particular word choices they did.


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5 Secrets You Need to Know About Saying No

Plus FREE Action Plan Checklist

I’ve heard from several readers lately who want some help saying no—without guilt! In this post, I share five secrets that helped transform me from a chronic people-pleaser to a more healthy person who knows when and how to say no. So if you cringe when you’re asked to do something you know you need to pass on, you need to learn these secrets!

Saying No…

…Doesn’t Mean You’re a Bad Christian (Secret #1)

For believers, Jesus is our model. Previously, I wrote a post reflecting on the apostle Paul’s call for us to have the same mindset as Christ. So, one of the best guilt-relieving strategies is to read the Scriptures and notice how often God says no. (I’ve listed a couple of examples on the 5 Secrets to Saying No Action Plan Checklist. Grab your copy now!)

God is good all the time. And He says no frequently. Thus, we must conclude that it is not ungodly to say no when appropriate.

And that’s the catch for most of who struggle with this skill. How do we know when it is appropriate and godly to say no? And that leads us to the second and third secrets.

…Can Be the Most Loving Response (Secret #2)

God created each of us to be responsible for certain aspects of our life. If someone is capable of handling their responsibilities, but not willing to do so, God calls that irresponsibility. It is not loving to enable irresponsibility in others.

This is totally different from someone being in a crisis situation that they are unable to cope on their own. Life in this fallen world can overwhelm our God-given ability to shoulder some burdens. In those instances when our load becomes a legitimate burden, it is appropriate to ask for help. And as believers, when we are in a position to help carry someone’s burden, we want to respond lovingly and graciously.

Check your motive for saying yes. If it is fear-based (fear of guilt, looking bad, rejection, etc.) you’re probably well-within the bounds of love to say no. You need to deal with your fear and let the one asking for help deal with their responsibilities.

However, if your motive is to help someone do something because you have the capacity and resources and want to freely share those, then your yes is probably the godly response. Are you capable of helping them get their head above water without drowning yourself?

Jesus was capable of overcoming death and we were not. He left his position of glory to dive down into our swirling shipwreck and save us. He did for us what we were unable to do for ourselves. And he had the capacity and resources to do so. Living cruciform is not the same thing as living as a doormat for irresponsible people to use and abuse.

…Without Guilt IS Possible! (Secret #3)

Once you ground your thinking on this topic in God’s character as revealed in the Scriptures and you understand how to determine if your yes will enable irresponsibility versus help shoulder another’s legitimate burden, you’ll begin to feel the guilt dissipate.

You’ll also be better prepared to counter manipulative responses to an appropriate no.

If you are gripped by fear or guilt, you probably need to brush up on your boundary-setting basics. Learning the biblical principles of healthy boundary setting will equip you to give voice to guilt-free nos when appropriate. I’d be happy to send you my FREE Boundary Basics email series. These five articles will get you up to speed on the basic principles of godly boundary setting.

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…Gets Easier with Practice. (Secret #4)

Boundary setting and saying no is a skill. And as with any skill it takes time to hone your knowledge and capability. Planning and practicing your new skills will make it easier for you to get that no out in real life circumstances.

Also, it can be extremely helpful to have a more experienced boundary-setter mentor you and model the skill. As you see someone else put the strategies into practice in day-to-day situations, you’ll realize you can do it as well. And they can role-play situations you regularly struggle with so you’re prepared with the words (and will) to follow through without beating yourself up.

You’ll learn how to give a no with grace. Saying no doesn’t have to be callous. A good no is given while communicating respect and concern for the one requesting something. Practicing with a mentor will help you polish your wording so as to graciously decline.

On the Action Plan, you’ll find some tips and suggestions related to selecting and approaching your potential mentors.

…Leads to More Peace, Less Stress (Secret #5)

When you are empowered and equipped to extend a godly no, you’ll begin to get your head above the waves of overwhelm.

You’ll be exercising better stewardship over your resources and God-given realm of responsibilities.

This will mean you have the margin and capacity to be a strong bearer of burdens for people who really need your help; instead of being loaded down with the castoffs of the shiftless sluggards.

Again, you’ll want to grab the Action Plan as I’ve got three simple questions you need to ask yourself about the yeses you’ve already given that should have been nos.

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Puzzled By the Bible? Look at the Big Picture to Make Sense of the Little Pieces!

This post and the highlighted resources will serve as your "picture on the puzzle box"!

If you’ve ever sat staring hundreds of little puzzle pieces and felt overwhelmed, I bet looking at the picture on top of the puzzle box helped you get your bearings and figure out how to assemble the many pieces into a coherent whole. Well, if the Bible feels like a jumble of stories, people, places, and ideas that you know are somehow suppose to fit together into a meaningful story but you just don’t see it, today’s post will help!

Understanding how a portion of Scripture fits into the overall story of the Bible is important to understanding the text correctly. While the Bible tells one continuous story, this story is conveyed in multiple books by multiple authors. Think of it as a library dedicated to the story of God’s self-revelation and His relationship, plans, and purposes with and for His Creation.

Context is Crucial

What is included in the library is known as the “canon.” Thus, knowing where a particular passage fits in the overall canon of the Bible is known as its “canonical context” and is just as important to properly interpreting the meaning of the passage as is understanding the historical and cultural contexts.

I’ve created a couple of graphics to give you a way of visualizing how the various books of the Bible fit within the overall canon. Also, these two graphics highlight some key info for each book such as its type of literature, author, how it was used by God’s people in Biblical times and other helpful bits of context.

Plus, at the end of this post, I’ve listed three of my favorite resources for helping you understand the big story of the Bible. There is even a special discount offered!

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The Big Story is Key to Understanding the Little Stories

When we are aware of the overall plot line and key themes of the story of God and His Creation, we are equipped to see the unchanging gracious and just nature of God, the certainty of His bringing His plans to fulfillment, and our need for Him despite our repeated insistence we do just fine on our own.

Scholars refer to the “big story” as the “metanarrative” of the Bible. There are four critical turning points within this overall plot:

  1. Creation
  2. Fall
  3. Redemption
  4. Restoration

Familiarity with these four themes allow us to recognize the appearance of those same themes within particular smaller stories and segments of Scripture.

So let’s take a brief look at each one of these themes so you can recognize it when you see it.

CREATION

Creation Icon-Green 5763Elements of this theme reveal God is the sovereign creator and sustainer of all things. By his plan, chaos becomes order.

Everything is created by God for His glory and pleasure.

Humans are created in God’s image, are given stewardship over the rest of Creation, and are created to worship and fellowship with God.

He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. For by Him all things were created, both in the heavens and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things have been created through Him and for Him. He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together.”Colossians 1:15-17, NASB

FALL

Fall Icon - 227When humans rebelled against God, demonstrating a lack of trust in Him and a desire to usurp His authority, the relationship between God and humanity was broken.

All of Creation was impacted by the chaotic consequence of humanity’s rebellion against God. The fallout was the introduction of death, disorder, and alienation.

Our holy God is unable to overlook wrong-doing. Sin can not remain in His presence, and apart from God there is no life, only death.

…sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all sinned…”
Romans 5:15, NASB

REDEMPTION

Redemption IconFor true relationship to exist between the Creator and those He created, humanity had to choose to love and obey God.

However, God knew we would choose self over God. Therefore, He planned our rescue and redemption before He set the foundation of the world.

Ultimately, God’s plan for our redemption was to save us through Christ’s atoning death on the cross. And if you pay close attention as you read the Scriptures leading up to the fulfillment of that plan, you will notice God’s redemptive actions which foreshadow and prepare for Christ’s once and for all sacrifice for our sin.

Our redemption cost God greatly. He endured the judgment for our sin and bestowed on us His righteousness. He redeemed us because of who He is and because of His love for us.

I have wiped out your transgressions like a thick cloud and your sins like a heavy mist. Return to Me, for I have redeemed you.
Isaiah 44:22, NASB

RESTORATION

Restoration Icon - blue yellowWe live in the “already but not yet” of the end times. We are sealed with the Holy Spirit and are being conformed to the image of Christ. And at the appropriate time, Christ will return and restore order to creation with a new heaven and a new earth.

Those who have placed their trust in Christ’s redeeming work on the cross will be resurrected and fellowship with God for all eternity. Those who rejected God’s plan for redemption will be resurrected and live eternally separated from Him.

He made known to us the mystery of His will, according to His good pleasure that He planned in Him for the administration of the days of fulfillment—to bring everything together in the Messiah, both things in heaven and things on earth in Him.”
Ephesians 1:9–10, HCSB

Big Story Themes in the Little Story of David & Goliath

Let’s consider each theme and how it shapes our understanding of what is going on in this particular story found in 1 Samuel 17.

Creation: From Chaos to Order

At the beginning of this story, we see the Philistines and the Israelite armies faced off in battle. Israel is the nation of God’s people, created and called out of the chaos of all the nations (See Genesis 11 and 12). Israel has only to trust and obey God and He promises to take care of them.

Fall: Failure to Trust and Obey

In the big story, the fall happens when Adam and Eve believe the lies of the serpent rather than trusting and obeying God (See Genesis 2-3). In 1 Samuel, we see echos of this when Saul and his army fail to trust in God and instead believe the taunts of Goliath.

Redemption: One Man of Faith Defeats Death

David, in the eyes of the worldly men around him, seems inadequate to face off against such a powerful enemy. Yet, his faith in God, rather than in his own abilities, empowers him to stand in the place of all the men of Israel and carry out God’s will. He uses the enemy’s own weapon to deliver the death blow and bring victory to God’s people.

Hear the echos of the cross from the big story? Jesus, one humble man with faith in God, faces off against those who defy God. The very instrument by which his enemies planned to use to destroy him (the cross), He used to defeat sin and win the victory for those who place their faith in the One True God.

Restoration: An Already But Not Yet King

As the story of David and Goliath ends, David is the victor. Even Saul, the current king, recognizes there is something different about David. “Find out whose son this young man is!” Saul demands.

I can’t help but recall a similar reaction at this same plot point in the big story. When Jesus accomplished the victory on the cross and the centurion and those with him who were guarding Jesus saw the earthquake and all that had happened, they exclaimed, “Surely he was the Son of God!”

David had already been anointed king before this battle with Goliath, but the world didn’t recognize him as king yet. In fact, it would be many years before David’s rule would be recognized and established. In the interim, David experienced the “already, but not yet” aspect we see in the big story. The victory was won, his place secure, yet the full realization of the kingdom awaited fulfillment.

And just as surely as God fulfilled his promise to seat David upon the throne and establish his kingdom, Christ will return and establish his everlasting kingdom in the new heaven and new earth.

Some Tools To Help You See the Big Picture of the Bible

If you want to become more familiar with the big picture and the metanarrative themes, here are a few great resources to help you:

Clarifying the Bible

Clarifying the Bible

Clarifying The Bible is a DVD presentation with an accompanying workbook. In less time than it takes to watch the average movie you will be introduced to the Bible like never before. The DVD presentation takes viewers on an exciting journey from Genesis all the way to Revelation.

I recently watched this fantastic program at a training for my church’s adult teachers. AWESOME! I highly recommend you grab either the DVD and workbook or get the digital downloads.

In fact, over the next three weeks, ending on May 17, Mitch is offering readers of my blog a 10% discount on their purchases. Use the coupon code lauranaiser to receive the discount. Note: When you hover your cursor over your cart you’ll see the button Proceed to Checkout. Click that button, then the request for the coupon code shows up in the blue box.

If this resource had been available back when I was serving as the Adult Ministries staff person at a large congregation, it would have been a huge help in equipping my teachers and congregation members. So if you’re a pastor or church staff person, take advantage of this special discount offer and order Clarifying the Bible for your next training.

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The 10 Day Bible Companion

The 10 Day Bible Companion

 

Dr. Pamela Harrison has guest posted on my blog in the past and has a wonderful book which connects the individual stories and pieces of the Bible into one amazing story.

Pam and her husband, Keith, are the co-founders of High Seas Ministries, a ministry dedicated to serving guests and crew members of the cruise ship industry. She teaches the complete Bible as presented in The 10-Day Bible Companion on ships and for groups on land. (I’ve attended one of her weekend intensives and it was fabulous!)

She presents God’s Word in a way that anyone can understand. And when you sit down with her book and your Bible, you can walk through the big story in ten very interesting sessions. Work through the book on your own or with a group of friends or a Sunday School class. You’ll have a new appreciation for the creation-fall-redemption-restoration themes as you read your Bible.

Order The 10-Day Bible Companion!

Seamless

Seamless-teenI wrote an entire blog post about this Bible study after I participated in it at my home church.

We did the regular version, which is great for a ladies Bible study whether at church or hosted in your home.

Angie Smith also created a version specifically for teen girls. I can’t imagine a better way to introduce your teen daughter and her friends to the beautiful and seamless thread connecting the people, places, and promises of the Bible in a whole new way.

Order Seamless!

Free Biblical Library and Periodic Table Graphics

Free Bible Study Infographics

Also, don’t forget to get the free printable I made you. This full-color handout illustrates how each book fits into the library of 66 books comprising the Protestant Bible. And the Periodic Table of the Bible provides you with some context for how these same books were grouped and used in Biblical times.

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Philippians Begins April 18 (Free child care deadline is April 11)

Would you like to learn the apostle Paul’s secret to being content in any circumstance? Would you like to better understand the mindset of Jesus Christ (and discover how to have it yourself)? That’d be pretty awesome, right? Well then you need to register for my new Bible study on Philippians which begins April 18. Paul will inspire you to press on toward the goal, for the ultimate prize of full knowledge of and communion with Christ. Instead of living with a sense of inadequacy or defeat, discover why Paul is confident God will bring the good work He has begun in you to its full completion.

If you regularly struggle with fear, worry, suffering, or negative thinking, this study will help you walk in joy, confidence, and the strength of Christ. You’ll have a new perspective on your challenges.

You don’t want to miss out on the opportunity to immerse yourself in these encouraging and inspiring words from Paul—and the fun, fellowship, and insights of some really amazing classmates!

So Here’s a Summary of What You’ll Get

    • WorkbookCover 300 pxA printed workbook designed to encourage and guide you through Philippians no matter what learning style you prefer. (I’ll hand these out at our first session).

 

    • Extra resources, tips, and strategies to help you anytime you study any portion of your Bible.

 

    • Six weekly group sessions (conveniently located in the heart of downtown Georgetown at Main Street Baptist Church). Morning classes meet 9:30 am and are out by 11 am. Evening classes will meet at 6:30 pm and be out by 8 pm.

 

    • Recordings of class discussions so you won’t miss out even if you have to miss a class.

 

    • Free child care if you register and submit your child care request by April 11! I’m partnering with my home church and thus we can offer a limited number of child care spots for free!

 

    • But that’s not all… I’ve created a couple of amazing bonuses for you.

Get All the Scoop & Register Now!

To learn all the details about the class and these bonuses, click the button below to jump over to my Philippians information and registration page.

The books go to the printer April 7 so if you want to be sure your workbook is ready for you at the first session, you need to register by April 7. Also, the deadline to request child care is April 11. So while you could register later, you may not get a printed workbook until the second class. So, if you live within driving distance of Georgetown, Texas, click the button below and get signed up!

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I’m so excited to be joining Evelyn Davison and Kerri Brinkoeter on their show Love Talk this Saturday, February 11, 2017 at 2 pm on KTXW The Bridge!

Lovetalk Faith Pantry

What staples do you need to sustain your soul and nourish your walk with Christ?

Join us as we share 3 simple steps to decluttering and restocking your faith pantry.

If you’re feeling like your schedule has become over-crowded or your spiritual practices have become a little stale, you’ll want to tune in to 1120 AM at 2 pm this Saturday and learn how to make sure your faith pantry provides you with the sustenance you need in this particular season of your life!

Not in the Austin area? No problem. Listen live from anywhere in the world via http://www.ktxw.net/.

If you miss the broadcast, visit www.lovetalknetwork.com to listen to the re-broadcast. Give them a few days to get the recording posted to their site. In the meantime, check out some of their recent episodes.

Need A Coach?

Want some help and further guidance on getting your faith pantry well stocked to meet your current needs? I’d love to coach you through this simple process! Check out my coaching page to book a free consultation!

Date: February 11, 2017
Time: 2:00-03:00 p.m.
Appearance: Join Me on LoveTalk with Evelyn Davison & Kerri Brinkoeter!
Outlet: KTXW 1120 AM The Bridge
Location: Austin Texas (Broadcasting worldwide at http://www.ktxw.net/)
Format: Radio

Need A Coach? Want some help and further guidance on getting your faith pantry well stocked to meet your current needs? I'd love to coach you through this simple process! Check out my coaching page to book a free consultation!

How God Provided the “How” When I Didn’t Know What To Do

Plus: FREE ebook for you!

Has it sunk in yet how close we are to beginning a new year? Do you ever get overwhelmed by trying to figure out how to get it all done? Or how to even know what to put on the to do list in the first place? 

I get it! But I’ve got some encouraging news for you!! God will provide the how!

As one who often doesn’t have a clue how to do what he asks me to do, I get a front row seat to watch God work. And he always comes through.

Sometimes he waits until the last possible second and way past the point of my comfort to reveal the answer, but he always reveals how to accomplish what he has called me to do.

(Now whether or not I USE what God provides is another matter altogether!)

How God Provides the HOW

Often, God uses other people to provide me with the how.

Michael Hyatt is someone God has used over and over in my life to show me how to move forward in answering God’s call on my life.

Around the time I was trying to figure out how to set up a blog and publish my first Bible study, God led me to Michael’s blog. There I found a godly mentor and guide to show me how to set up this ministry.

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(Michael Hyatt with me at SheSpeaks Conference)

If you don’t know who he is, Michael is the former CEO of the Christian publishing company Thomas Nelson. He now mentors people on how to intentionally live out what God is calling them to do with their lives.

Recently he asked 30 top achievers a question:

What is the most important thing you do at the beginning of each year to set yourself up for your best year ever?

Michael compiled their answers in a new ebook and is giving it away for free for a limited time.

You’ll recognize many of the names in the book. They include multiple best-selling authors, speakers, and leaders of their respected fields.

People like:

  • Lysa TerKeurst
  • Dave Ramsey
  • Andy Stanley
  • John Maxwell
  • Andy Andrews
  • Jon Acuff
  • (and many others)

I’ve already grabbed my copy and wanted to share my link with you so you can get yours. I’m telling ya, God’s providing lots of “how” ideas through these people! It’s free for a limited time, so get your copy now!

Blessings of truth and grace,

P.S. As we get closer to the start of 2017, the timing on this couldn’t be any better. The insights were pretty incredible. Click here to take a look for yourself!

P.P.S Share this with your friends so they don’t miss out on the free book! I’m sure they want their 2017 to be their best year ever, too. They’ll thank you for sharing!

Why is it so hard to honestly answer the question, “Is everything OK?”

Plus a FREE GUIDE: 9 Strategies You Can Use to Defeat Depression

Recently one of my friends noticed I had not been posting regularly to my blog over the summer. So, she emailed me and asked a simple question: “Is everything OK?” She is one of my closest friends on earth, though we no longer get to see each other that often. So, I shouldn’t have had any qualms about telling her the truth. But I procrastinated for weeks before admitting my honest answer to that little question was, “No, actually, everything is not OK. I’m kind of a mess right now—more of a mess than usual.”

The truth is I’ve been struggling with chronic pain since April. It has made getting a good night’s sleep impossible with out pharmaceutical assistance. Walking is painful. And the pain makes concentrating difficult. So, I’ve been very haphazard about writing posts.

In fact, I’ve become very haphazard about doing just about everything the past few months.

Not being able to move about and stick to my regular routine inevitably led to me doing quite a few marathons…on Netflix.

STILL WATCHING Netflix

And so it is no surprise that I slipped into a pretty deep depression.

Which makes it even harder to concentrate and take care of my normal responsibilities. So I feel guilty and like a big ol’ slug. See how the things can easily spin out of control?

What stops the vicious cycle?

There are a number of things we can do to interrupt the pattern of increasing depression. I’ve made you a simple guide to the nine things I’ve found helpful in my current and past bouts with this malady (see below). And while we do need to take practical steps such as these, I’ve found the Psalmist offers the most significant means of gaining hope and perspective in the midst of the despair.

Why, my soul, are you downcast?
    Why so disturbed within me?
Put your hope in God,
    for I will yet praise him,
    my Savior and my God.

Psalm 42:5

Even in the darkest moments, when I fix my eyes on God and call out to him, I find hope. Much like Peter walking on the water, when my focus shifts away from Christ, I begin sinking in despair. But as soon as I call out to him, I feel his grip upon me.

It isn’t always easy or pretty, but it is as simple as looking up and crying out, “Lord, save me!” It doesn’t mean the waves and wind no longer roll and thunder. It simple means I’m safe in his hand and he will pull me back up when I sink.

I pray you don’t ever experience depression, but if you do (or if someone you care about does), perhaps the words of the Psalmist, Peter, or myself will encourage you to keep your gaze turned heavenward and let our Savior lift you up.

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The Secret to Nipping Anxiety in the Bud!

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For much of the past 18 months, I struggled with anxiety. It began as a fear of flying. We traveled more than usual in 2015 and I had to fly several times within the span of a few months. I made the mistake of focusing on my fear. As I gave it more and more attention, the anxiety became stronger and more problematic. Eventually, the fear was no longer tied to one specific issue. I began having panic attacks on a regular basis, my sleep was disrupted, and I was seeking comfort and distraction in food. Having battled depression in the past, I recognized I was spiraling down and needed to seek help. Now, successfully on the other side of the battle, I want to offer some encouragement. If you, like me and 40 million American adults, are affected by anxiety disorders, read on. And even if you don’t struggle with this issue yourself, I bet you know someone who does. Encourage them by sharing this with them.

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Nip It In the Bud

Worry is like a weed. If you don’t rip it out by its root, it will continue to return and grow. If not dealt with, anxiety can choke out the beneficial things God intends to grow and flourish in your life.

This is one instance when Barney Fife had it right.

We’ve got to nip anxiety in the bud. Don’t let it take root and develop. The earlier you recognize the problem and take action to deal with it, the better off you will be.

And if you can prevent the weed of worry from taking root in the first place; even better! One of the best ways to prevent or begin to eradicate anxiety is to eliminate the environment which contributes to its growth.

The weed of worry grows in the soil of insecurity. When we focus on the things that breed insecurity, we provide the perfect environment for anxiety to flourish.

If you want peace, you must plant yourself in secure soil. The apostle Paul wrapped up his letter to the church at Philippi with this very point.

The Philippians’ reasoned their Roman citizenship provided unprecedented safety. Paul reminded these believers their true security was derived from their citizenship in heaven, not Rome, and from their Savior’s power to bring everything under his control (Philippians 3:20–21).

Paul then gave them (and us) practical ways to cultivate this peace-filled environment.

It is easy to focus on earthly things and depend on them to keep us safe. Or convince ourselves if we just mull over the scary scenario one more time, we can gain control over our circumstances. However, if we place our confidence in anything other than Jesus, we sow in the shifting soil where worries thrive.

Instead, root your hope in the surety of Christ. And keep your focus, not on your fears, but on what you want more of in your life.

If you want to see how I put this into practice on our trip to Hawaii last summer, watch the video blog post I made about facing my fears. I hope it encourages you (and gives you a laugh or two). FYI, this trip took place at the height of my problems with the panic attacks.

Anchor yourself to the unwavering stability of Christ and then keep your gaze fixed on him and all that he represents.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God,which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.” —Philippians 4:6-9 NIV

In this soil, peace flourishes no matter the circumstances because our Lord is always near and in control. The right source of assurance prevents disturbing thoughts from taking root in the first place. And prayer keeps our focus on the proper things rather than allowing our fearful fantasies to run amok.

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Now that we know how to prevent apprehensive ideas from growing like weeds, we can take steps to yank our existing worries out by their root. Paul’s advice in Philippians 3:19-4:19 correlates to five strategies I have found effective for eradicating these weeds. I’ve summarized these strategies in a FREE Cheat Sheet so you can put them to work in your life. Just click the button below to request your free copy.

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Put it into Practice

Recognize the difference between soil that encourages worry weeds and soil that enables the growth of peace. Then, put into practice sound strategies for ripping your worries out by the root. This will allow you to say along with Paul:

I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” (Philippians 4:12-13 NIV)

Trust God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus and may the peace of God, which passes all understanding, guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Please note, I am not a therapist or psychologist. I share this, instead, as someone who has been down this weary path and emerged stronger and less fearful.

Question: What helps you keep your anxious thoughts in check so they don’t disrupt your life and relationships? Let’s help each other with this very common struggle! You can leave a comment by clicking here.